Admit it or not, once in your life you experienced asking for a sign, especially in matters involving “heart”. Not to discourage, make fun or belittle those who believe, but c’mon, we’re in the 21st Century, magpapahuli ka pa ba kakahintay sa walang kasiguraduha
If you’re using it as an excuse
“Kapag gusto may paraan, kapag ayaw, madaming dahilan” – life is as simple as that, agree? Constantly asking for a sign like “Lord, give me sign if he’s the One”, is a clear testament that you are not yet ready for a relationship or hindi mo talaga sya type! Stop waiting for signs, that might lead you to committing grave mistake. Pag ayaw, eh di’ huwag! “
If it delays your action
“To do or not to do”, “to stay or to let go”, “to move on or to wait”, at kung ano-ano pang kadramahan sa buhay! Individuals are naturally expert in complicating their life. Be brave in making choices, and prepare for its consequences. “Let’s take it slow”, how slow? Please, waste time wisely!
If you keep on following what you want
Why ask if you have no intention of listening in the first place? Isn’t just a waste of time, energy and patience? Ang sabi nga ni Zenaida “Syzygy” Seva, “Hindi hawak ng mga bituin ang ating kapalaran, gabay lamang sila. Mayroon tayong free will, gamitin natin ito.” Try this piece of advice, ‘okay lang magkamali, ang mahalaga, sinubukan mo.”
If you keep asking for more
Once the sign you demanded fall right in your face, and you ask for another one, para makasigurado, and then another one, and another one more, ano ka, segurista? Go back to the first sign on the list coz the chances are, you are just looking for an excuse. Either tamad ka or talagang wala ka lang amor sa kung ano man yang hinihingan mo ng sign.
Sometimes, it’s not signs that we need, rather just COMMON SENSE. Common sense is so rare these days, it should be classified as a super power, funny but true! Hats off to whoever said this famous line!